The Tradition of the First Dance:
A Beautiful Beginning to Your Wedding Celebration
The first dance is a timeless tradition that signifies a couple’s "first public appearance" as a married pair. It represents the commitment to each other, as well as the merging of two lives and two families. Over the years, it has become a meaningful moment for couples to share their love with friends and family.
Originating in the 17th century at European balls, the first dance has evolved over time. Today, it remains a cherished tradition at weddings worldwide, influenced by the movies, TV shows, and music of the 20th century.
When should you have a first dance?
While it’s common for the first dance to take place right before the dance floor officially opens, many couples today opt to have it immediately after the Grand Introduction, before the dinner portion of the event begins. This timing allows guests to witness the moment as they are seated and attentive, making it even more memorable.
Does the first dance have to be just the couple?
If you’re feeling a little awkward about dancing alone while everyone watches, you’re not alone—and that’s perfectly fine! You can start the song as a couple to capture some beautiful pictures, and then invite your wedding party or parents to join in. This not only makes the moment more relaxed but also gives everyone a chance to be part of the celebration, which makes for fantastic memories and photos.
Choosing the perfect song for your first dance
The song you choose for your first dance often holds personal meaning for the couple. However, not every couple has a "special" song that immediately comes to mind. If that's the case for you, don’t stress! There are countless beautiful songs out there—just pick one that resonates with both of you.
Tips for Selecting the perfect first dance song
Still stuck on finding the perfect song? Don’t worry—we’ve got you covered! Check out this playlist of 50+ popular first dance songs to help spark some inspiration (in no specific order).
Happy Dancing!!