For years, guests at weddings have used the time-honored tradition of clinking glasses to prompt the newlyweds to kiss. While it’s a classic move, it can also be a bit much—especially when that one enthusiastic uncle takes it upon himself to clink his glass every five minutes. Beyond the annoyance, there’s always the risk of shattered glassware (yes, it happens).
The Origins of Glass Clinking
But where did this tradition even begin? Theories abound: some suggest it was meant to ward off evil spirits, test for poison, or simply entertain guests. While the true origin remains a mystery, one thing is certain—you don’t have to include this tradition in your wedding if you don’t want to!
Skip the Glass Clinking (If you Want)
If the idea of constant clinking doesn’t appeal to you, feel free to skip it! Let guests know in advance, either through your wedding website or a friendly announcement from the MC. If you still want to create fun, interactive moments for guests to prompt a kiss, consider these creative alternatives:
Sing a Song, Tell a Story or Share a Joke
Tell a Story, or Share a Joke: Guests must entertain the crowd first. Whether it's singing a love song, telling a story, or sharing a joke, this playful approach sets a lighthearted tone. Ensure your MC is ready to step in if needed.
(Should you have an open mic? )
Trivia Time
Test your guests’ knowledge with trivia questions about the bride, groom, or both. The rules are simple: a correct answer earns a kiss from the couple; an incorrect one… well, that’s up to you!
Demonstrate the Kiss
Here’s a crowd favorite: guests who want to see the couple kiss must first demonstrate how they’d like it done. Whether it’s sweet, funny, or extravagant, the couple then tries to recreate the kiss. Don’t forget to have a backup option for guests who don’t have a partner.
Pay for Kisses
Guests toss cash into a jar to see the couple kiss, often as a fundraiser for the couple or a charity. Though cash may be less common these days, you could adapt this idea with mobile payment apps or a fun QR code for donations.
Spin the Wheel
Set up a spin-the-wheel game with sections like “Couple Kiss,” “Kiss a Bridesmaid/Groomsman on the Cheek,” or “Dance Back to Your Table.” This random element keeps things entertaining for everyone!
Kissing Dice
Use a large die to determine what happens next. Each number corresponds to an action: a kiss from the couple, a serenade from a guest, or maybe even a dance-off!
Kiss of Gold
Fill a jar with Hershey’s Kisses—most wrapped in silver, but a few in gold. If a guest draws a gold one, the couple shares a kiss!
Kissing Menu
Create a “kissing menu” and place it at each table. Guests can choose from options like “The Serenade” (sing a love song) or “The Example” (demonstrate a kiss) to earn their chance to see the couple smooch.
Target Practice
For the outdoorsy couple, a Nerf gun and target can add a fun, competitive twist. Guests take aim, and the couple kisses based on the results!
Fishing for a Kiss
If fishing is more your style, set up a small pool with magnetic fish. Each fish corresponds to a different action, like a couple’s kiss or a guest serenade.
Endless Possibilities
These are just a few of the many creative alternatives to glass clinking. From trivia to kissing menus, the possibilities are endless. The key is to make it simple, fun, and uniquely you.
So, whether you’re embracing tradition or starting your own, don’t be afraid to get creative. After all, weddings are all about celebrating love—and there’s no wrong way to share a kiss!